It’s said that choice, not chance, determines destiny. This is true considering that taking chances are unpredictable, uncontrollable, and uncertain. But choices are made through deliberate thoughts, intentions, and preferences. Chances depend on certain luck and randomness; choices are based on deliberate decision-making.
Considering the differences, here’s a thought: You can choose to take a chance and risk making the wrong choice. Or, you can choose not to take a chance and be more confident you’re making the right choice.
Should you choose the latter, then you can consider how to make the right choice.
Obviously, if you can make the right choice you can also make the wrong choice. This, of course, depends on where you go to make your choice. This is challenging, indeed.
I could list many practical ways for determining how to arrive at the right choice. You might have used these steps yourself:
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- Making a list of options, researching each one, then narrowing them down to the one that appears the best;
- Investigate the situation at hand; interview others who can advise you through their own knowledge and experience;
- List the advantages vs. disadvantages then set goals that will determine the right outcome you are seeking;
- Consider how you see the outcome will be by your decisions. Will they help or hurt? What kind of effect will they have not only on you but others both now and in the future?
- Determine your own set of beliefs, values, and attitudes and how you’ll approach making the right choice. And who can you trust to guide you according to your beliefs, etc.?
I suppose there are many more ideas you could add to this list. But the step that I believe really stands out among any of them is the last one. For, as I see it, what you believe, the values or principles you live by, the attitude you have will determine all the other ways upon which you make your choice. Besides, they also play a major role toward shaping your personality.
As far as my beliefs, values, and attitudes are concerned, I choose the Biblical approach for making right choices. It’s all about the difference between what is truly right and what is truly wrong. In other words, the ultimate choice is between good or evil; moral or immoral; positive or negative.
It seems this way of thinking is lacking in much of the world. Decisions tend to be about how I feel, not about what’s right no matter how I feel. Like someone quipped, “Few people make a deliberate choice between good and evil; the choice is between what we want to do and what we ought to do.”
There are various Bible passages about we ought to do for making the right choices. For one thing, God not only gives us intelligence, sensibilities, and a will so that we may make our choices but commands us to make the right ones, as well. For example…
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- Deuteronomy 30:19: “I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and curse. Therefore choose life, that you and your offspring may live.” (English Standard Version, ESV)
- Romans 12:2: “Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.” (ESV)
- James 1:5: “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.” (ESV)
- Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” (ESV)
Joshua, the great military leader of Israel challenged his people, “Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve.” The choice he gave them was between God and the false god, Baal. Before they could even respond, Joshua couldn’t wait to announce his choice: “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15).
When we make our choice to serve the Lord, we do so with the right frame of mind and it primarily has to do with our love for God and for others. Jesus related this matter to the two greatest commands:
‘“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the great and foremost commandment. 39 The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 Upon these two commandments hang the whole Law and the Prophets,” (Matthew 22:37-40).
Through love for God and others, we make our choices on God’s will taking first priority. If we make our choices this way, then we will have the right motive for doing so. Our choices are for giving God the glory that he is due to receive through all that we say or do. For he is our God and provider for our lives. In fact, we are instructed, “Whatever you do, do all to the glory of God,” (1 Corinthians 10:31; See also Colossians 3:23).
Proverbs 3:5-6 says,
5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart
And do not lean on your own understanding.
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He will make your paths straight.
When it comes to making choices of any kind, we acknowledge God and trust him foremost with all our heart and mind. Then we won’t be taking a chance. Rather, we will be making a choice—the right one, at that.
Good News to YOU!
Pastor Michael
P.S. Here’s a song I’ve chosen sung by Julie Elias, “The Choice,” https://youtu.be/LSOZPt6f6lw